Truth Is Always Right
Seems many adoptive parents do not want to tell the child the truth, but to wait till they get old enough to understand. I feel that is a very bad mistake.
I want to write about an example, but this does no right concern adoptions, but I believe it applies to it.
A husband and wife I know, their daughter had a child at an early age. They did not believe in abortion, which I think is great so they handle it like this.
The mother and father took this child, a boy, and raised him as their own, never telling him the truth of things.
The things is, everyone that lives around these part knew, except for him.
So he find out when he is going to get married, because that was the first time he had saw his birth certificate.
For many months he would not talk to the man and woman who he called father and mother, nor would he speak to his birth mother who he was raise to believe to be his sister.
That has been several years ago, but he is still not on very good terms with his family. The closeness that had been there seems to be forever gone.
This man and woman who chose to raise this boy up in a lie, was the woman who I called mother 1st cousin, so I know several details about this.
They were many you warned them, and told them to tell this young boy the truth, but they would not, but said we will tell him when he gets old enough to understand, that day never came, and now that whole family is paying for not telling the truth.
No doubt, the truth is always right.
May God Bless,
Jerry
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